Ben showed up out of the blue on Saturday morning around 3am. He basically showed up at my door and said, ‘Move with me now or we are going to fall apart.’ We rented a U-Haul 8 hours later, had everything packed inside 8 hours after that and in 6 1/2 hours will be on the road to San Jose with everything I own. We both knew that if I didn’t move very soon, we were going to have serious problems. I’m scared out or my mind and excited beyond belief all at the same time. Sad to be leaving people I love very much, but happy to start this new chapter in my life and see where it will lead.